Dating can be very stressful and complicated especially for women. There are a lot of things to remember and because of the struggle keep all those on in mind, the date turns out to be a total disaster. So here are some first date advice for all the women out there.
First and foremost, just relax and don’t put pressure on yourself to be smart or pretty. Don’t try so hard to be achieve your ideal self and at the same time compromising the person that you truly are. You have to realize that you have to be the person that you truly are rather than pretending to be someone you are not.
Whether it is a date or a job interview, first impressions matter and comfort all at the same time. It is common sense not to wear heels on a picnic date or rubber shoes to a formal dinner. Keep in mind to go with an outfit that will not only make you feel great and comfortable but is also appropriate for the venue and for you, of course.
Being respectful is not just limited going on date. Anywhere you go, always show respect to the people that you encounter with. Being respectful is shown in many ways such as showing up on time of the date or being polite to the waiters or the cab drivers. These little things will surely go long way to the guy that you are on a date with because let’s be honest, who wants to be with someone who is rude?
Don’t stare at your phone the whole time
In this generation, it is very common for people to be very busy on their phones even in the company of friends or going on date. This is to check social networking sites such Facebook, twitter and Instagram. Truth be told, this is very rude to the person that you are with. Pay attention to the person in front of you and state a conversation because that is what the date is for in the first place.
When your date asks your opinion on something, tell him what is on your mind. If he asks you what you want, then give him your honest answer. Nothing is more attractive than woman who can make up her mind and knows what she wants.
Don’t be self-absorbed
Yes, you don’t have to talk about yourself all the time. Show interest in your partner too. Be an active listener as well. If you are too self-absorbed, tendency is that your partner will eventually get tired about it and leave you hanging in the end.
These are just some of the tips for women when it comes to dating. But at the end of the day, these tips won’t matter if what you feel about your partner is not real. Primarily, make sure that you are in love with the person and that you are willing to work on the negative stuff and enjoy the positive things as well.