Unlock Her Legs claims to give men tips on how to score those really ‘hard-to-get girls’. The two bros (Bobby and Rob) who introduce the product make it clear that this is about getting that “girl” that a man really wants, really hankers for, really, really wants. So this is not about scoring some amazing one night stand with that really hot babe you bump into at a nightclub or that (very taken) vamp in your office that you lust after.
No, it’s about how you can get that girl that is in your life but is somehow out of reach.
Ultimately, the bros attempt to guide a man through the seduction process, from the psychological to the emotional to the physical. This Unlock Her Legs review will assess just how justified those claims actually are.
Unlock Her Legs Review
Bobby and Rob
Unlock Her Legs promises a lot, and does so with a lot of information. And I mean a lot of information. The two geeky fratboy bros, Bobby and Rob (see them in the pic below), who present us with this multi-step, multi-part training program, are earnest and have clearly done a fair share of work in putting it together.
It is sporadically interesting, some of it even very good, but too much of the content is a case of ‘been there, done that’ for anyone familiar with online dating courses. Tripp Advice is mostly low key and, to be honest, underwhelming.
The end result is an overblown exercise in half-baked pop psychology which is never that convincing, even if it does snow one down with pages of theories and tips, and many audio clips. What is most unnerving is just how aggressive the approach is, ranging from actively changing her ‘patterns’ to endless mind games to ensure that she falls more and more for you, to the point where you have total ‘control’ over her.
The control is psychological and emotional, and, ultimately, physical (of course). It’s step after step of what should be done to entice her, bait her and, finally, have her. Unlock Her Legs in theory could have been more intelligent, and even a lot more fun.
Rather, it comes across as fratboy wishful thinking, and so much damn effort. Surely dating shouldn’t require this much relentless work?
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The first catch in Unlock Her Legs is that there must still be some interest from the girl (even if hard to get) and that there must at least be some type of ongoing connection with her. There must be enough interaction in order to “get into her head”, as the bros say. Planting thoughts into her mind is very important.
The Introduction is a video of the two bros introducing the main points about what Unlock Her Legs is all about. It’s more of a ramble, and it’s mostly by Bobby (clearly the alpha male of the two buds), and, boy, does he love to talk. We then get sent into the “Closed Door Interview,” which is in 7 parts. That’s 7 MP3s of the bros and their ‘female friend,’ Nikki. She is one passive and odd-sounding ‘gal’, that’s for sure.
The first part is ‘Decoding the Matrix’ which sets the tone for the entire training, i.e. a lot of emphasis on playing games – first the head games one has to play with the girl, along with emotional games, then eventually the physical games. To these guys, it’s all about strategy – and strategy, and more strategy. Much is made about ‘The Decoder” (Part 6), which is really about the girl. As Robby prattles, “where she needs a decoder to figure out what the hell is this guy doing, why didn’t he text me back, what is going on [and on and on]…?”
“The Big 3” (Part 7) comprise (1) “interrupting a pattern [possibly where she hasn’t gone beyond ‘the friend zone’]”, (2) “setting emotional trapdoors” and (3)”about her chasing validation”. Jesus, talk about cynical! Bobby and Rob do make a clever distinction between men and women, when they say that often men chase sex, whilst women chase validation. Makes sense.
They then move onto Weapons of Seduction Part 1, which talks about how ‘bad boys’ win because they are counter-intuitive for girls, i.e. they know the guy is bad for them, but that’s exactly why they go for him, and other such crackpot psychology that we’ve all heard many times before. Weapons of Seduction Part 2 is more interesting in that it reveals a lot behind the thinking of Unlock Her Legs.
In this Part it’s all about the head games that need to be played. Bobby speaks about how you need to take up her “mental space”, using ambiguity, sending mixed messages to her, etc. They tell guys to be vague about things, keep as many female friends as possible, and even stay actively in touch with exes. You need to make her miss you, make her all insecure and feel like you’re not even that into her, but also having little “in jokes” with her that are only understood by you and her. You know, the usual mind fuck tactics that people usually hate.
Even if it does work, surely that gambit only works for really insecure, screwed up girls, and surely it only results in relationships that are based on insecurity and, worse still, potential co-dependence?! Who the hell wants that, right? Well, maybe some guys won’t mind.
You can then move onto the Scrambler, which is presented as a PDF report. It provides a list of the girls you can conquer with Uncross Her Legs. Then it provides a ‘Roadmap’, the first step of which is to “create confusion” in her mind, known as ‘Interrupting Her Pattern’ (Step 1), so that you as the guy can plant little ideas into her mind, like some machiavellian Riddler. Step 2 is about “The Power Shift”, and you can imagine where the power should shift to. This is followed by “The Validation” – after all, as the bros emphasize, “humans are validation junkies”.
Again, they’re not half-wrong about that.
Step 4 is what they deem to be the most powerful step of all – “Unpredictable Rewards”. It’s all about her waiting to see what you can give her in the most unpredictable way possible – and it must be unexpected and create a craving of delicious anticipation within her.
Step 5 is actually (let’s be honest) the one most guys want, which is “Physical Intimacy”, which include little ways of you ‘breaking the rules’ (read: being a manipulative asshole) so that she somehow craves you more. These include things like disagreeing with her, making her buy you a drink and paying little attention to her at a social event, and so forth. More mind games…
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There are little asides like “Phase D-Day: Set Some Trapdoors with Big Moves” and”Chilled Ice” Get Her in Emotional Quicksand”, which are titles that say it all, never mind the mixed (mangled?) metaphors. I mean, what the hell do “chilled ice” and “emotional quicksand” have to do with each other?! It all culminates (cums together?) in the “L.U.S.T Phase”, which is when you make your move and (at the least) have some form of physical interaction with her.
The bros state how, “As long as you set the foundational work (adhering to the earlier stages), and you do a decent job of executing the L.U.S.T. timeline, then you should have no problem transitioning yourself into a romantic prospect with your girl. Keep in mind that you MUST make some sort of physical advance on her. At the very least, try and
It seems oddly quaint that a chapter emblazoned with the word “L.U.S.T” should be so okay about something as coy as a half-assed kiss, as if you and her were still stuck in high school. Jeez, is that what a guy can expect after all the mind games and endless strategizing, never mind all the reading one has to wade through to Uncross Her Legs? A possible kiss? Sheesh! Oh, and what does “L.U.S.T” actually stand for? It stands for (1) Laughing, (2) Understanding, (3) Sexualizing and (4) Taking It Home.
And there’s a whole PDF just on that. So that you can maybe get a kiss…
There’s even talk of ‘friendly fire’ between you and her, like some half-baked war of the sexes. According to them, seduction is really “all about gaining psychological, emotional and physical control over her whole entire being.” Wow! And who in this day and age actually wants control over the “whole entire being” of a person? Oh well, perhaps some guys do.
Extras abound, of course, like “Make Her Horny With Humor” ($49.97), “Master Her Mind” ($97), “Seductive Storytelling” ($49), as well as “Magnetic Messaging” ($47, and with a bunch of extras said to have a “total bonus [bogus?] value” of $1433). These extras clearly don’t come cheap but I do grant that the bros offer a 60-days-or-your-money-back guarantee. It seems they believe in what they’re peddling.
And how does it look and feel?
The site and its various (many) modules and files are easy enough to navigate. There’s just too many files and clips to open up and view, which is why the site looks a tad cluttered. The site also suffers from a somewhat naff-looking layout and drab, affected-looking colour scheme (Sin City, anyone) . It frankly looks just a little too much like a blog that a couple of savvy frat pals put together.
What’s To Like Unlock Her Legs?
What’s Not To Like About Unlock Her Legs?
It would seem that this review has ripped Unlock Her Legs to shreds. Well, maybe a bit. It is true that there was much to criticize and poke fun at. This training by these two guys has ‘fratboy bro pop psychology’ written all over it. In flashing neon lights. So much of it seems like wishful thinking, even if so much thought and work has evidently gone into it.
Have these guys ever really dated girls using the control freak mind games advocated by their training? The lack of testimonials or any type of credible study of the Unlock Her Legs training methodology makes it highly suspect. It comes across not so much as bogus, but as really the pipe dreams of those who think they can dutifully plot out every step of this thing called dating and relationships.
Having said all of that, who knows…maybe this could work. Maybe there are girls out there who would fall for these manipulative gambits, and guys who would be willing to put in all the work to try and create that all-elusive ‘control’. I don’t deny that could happen. And this training sure does provide the guy with a lot of information and ideas to formulate that strategy.
The type of dating and even relationship that could ensue would probably be quite unhealthy, but this training could maybe get a guy the girl he wants, and in that it might succeed. But surely dating shouldn’t have to include this much cynical strategy and demand this much work, right? Unlock Her Legs certainly seems to think so.